Chana Ceasar, LMFT
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About Chana Ceasar, LMFT
People usually find their way here after realizing that something from childhood never fully resolved. They may understand what happened on a cognitive level, but their body still reacts as if it is happening now. Relationships feel charged, boundaries feel confusing, and self-trust feels fragile even when they are capable and accomplished in other areas of life.
I work with adults who are living with the long-term effects of childhood trauma, including childhood sexual abuse, mother-daughter sexual abuse, attachment injuries, and experiences of being emotionally unprotected. Much of this work involves helping people slow down enough to notice what their nervous system learned early on and how those patterns continue to shape their reactions, choices, and sense of self.
Many of the people I work with describe carrying what I refer to as the unprotected child, the part of them that learned early on that no one was going to step in, notice, or keep them safe. This pattern is common in adults healing attachment trauma and childhood sexual abuse, even when their lives look stable from the outside.
My approach is grounded, relational, and body-aware. I pay close attention to what is happening in real time, both in what you say and in what your body signals. Many clients come to therapy having already talked about their experiences before, but without feeling a meaningful shift. We focus not only on understanding the past, but on helping your system recognize that the danger is no longer present, because insight alone is rarely enough.
I have spent years working with trauma survivors, including children and adults, and I am particularly committed to working with experiences that are often minimized, misunderstood, or avoided altogether. This includes sexual abuse within families and dynamics where harm was obscured by loyalty, silence, or confusion. These experiences shape identity, self-worth, and relationships in specific ways, and they require a therapist who is steady, direct, and willing to name what others avoid.
In therapy, you do not need to perform, explain yourself perfectly, or make sense of everything right away. We work at a pace that allows your system to stay present, because healing happens when you feel safe enough to stay connected rather than pushing through. Over time, this work supports clearer boundaries, greater emotional stability, and a stronger sense of self that is no longer organized around survival.
This practice is a good fit for people who want depth, consistency, and honesty, and who are ready to engage in work that is careful rather than rushed. It may not be the right fit if you are looking for quick techniques or surface-level coping strategies without addressing underlying patterns.
If you choose to work with me, we will focus on creating a therapeutic relationship that is reliable, respectful, and grounded, so that the parts of you that learned to stay guarded can begin to settle. From that place, meaningful change becomes possible.
Centering Healing is a private therapy practice for adults working through attachment trauma, childhood sexual abuse, and the lasting impact of being emotionally unprotected, and the work is designed for people seeking depth-oriented trauma therapy rather than short-term symptom relief.
If you are considering therapy and want to explore whether working together makes sense, you can schedule an initial appointment here.
Name Change Journey
Connections. I believe that life is about the connections we make. The connections we make with people. The connections with ourselves, looking at the patterns that keep us stuck but also the pattern of trusting our intuition, and finally there can be connections spiritually or religious. Connections. A Felt sense of safety, trust, our identity, it all goes together.
Over the past couple years I have been looking more at these connections. Looking at what feels right vs what feels wrong. Trusting my gut and my intuition. Feel a sense of stability in and trust in my inner wisdom and knowing. This started with my name. My birth name Jessica Lang given by my mother was a name that just didn’t fit for me any more. As I connected deeper and deeper with my Judaism, my Hebrew name of chana (pronounced Ha-na) that I chose for myself and sang true in my soul when I had my bat mitzvah did feel right. It felt true. So after much wrestling, especially because I knew what a big change this would be for my work, I decided to legally change my name from Jessica to Chana Jessica. It was powerful but not complete.
So we move to my last name. A last name that I felt no connection to. Lang, my biological father’s surname, a man whom I have never met. Whose family I have never met. Why should I continue to carry this around? To pass this down generationally when I had no connection. But my mother’s maiden name, Ceasar, I had connection. Connection to family, a mix of love and dysfunction, felt more resonate. So I changed my last name too. So this is how I have become Chana Jessica Ceasar.
With a new name I thought about changing my business name because Jlang Therapy & Consulting doesn’t work for Chana Ceasar. So I dug deep again, wanting something that encapsulated what I do when I work with my clients. I support them on their healing journey. Helping them prioritize themselves and to give themselves the love and care that they never got when they were abused and to provide that for themselves so they can walk into their own power, love, strength, and confidence. We center their healing. And thus centering Healing was born.
Specializations & Experience Treating to Heal Somatically:
- Child sexual abuse, incest, rape, and molestation
- Mother-daughter child sexual abuse
- Complex Trauma & PTSD
- Attachment wounds from childhood
- Parenting support for pregnant women and new moms who are survivors of trauma and wanting to heal to be the best mom they can be
- Support for Single Mother's By choice
(SMBC) - Childhood trauma during early childhood (0-5 Mental Health therapist)
- Multicultural & Gender Affirming Therapist
Certifications
- Dr. Bruce Perry's Neurosequential Model of Therapeutics (NMT Brain Mapping). Certification through the Phase I level.
- Infant-Parent Mental Health Specialist (through Napa Infant-Parent Mental Health Program)
- Somatic Experiencing Intermediate (in the second year of the 3 year certification track which focuses on healing trauma through the body through the trauma institute)
Education
- San Francisco State University, BA Psychology 2008
- Chapman University, MA Psychology 2011
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